Guide to Orange County

One of the most common emails that I receive from CBL readers is… “I’m heading to _____, California, do you have any recommendations?”

This can be San Franciscio, San Diego, Los Angeles, Napa, Santa Barbara… but I only live in Orange County, which is in between LA and San Diego.  California is gigantic. The third largest state in the country (behind Alaska and Texas) and the most populated state in the country by a landslide.  Because I don’t live in those other cities, I don’t have the full scoop on those locations BUT as for OC, I got you covered, girlfriend!

This post is FAR delayed, but it’s never too late to share my favorite spots, and I hope this will help some of you who are planning to visit this gorgeous stretch of beach towns I am so fortunate to currently call home. There are so many areas in Orange County to cover (the county houses over 3 million people in 34 tightly packed cities), but I’m going to cover my three favorite areas: Laguna Beach, Newport Beach and Old Towne Orange.

Laguna Beach

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Favorite Places to Stay:
Surf & Sand | One of my favorite hotels on the water… and I’m talking ON THE WATER. You sleep with the sound of the waves! The location is perfect and you can easy walk to and from dinner, downtown, the beach, etc. They also have a really beautiful pool with views of the ocean. Can’t top that! Photos from this hotel can be seen here, here and here.

Pacific Edge Hotel | We stayed at this hotel for a weekend and were amazed with all of the recent renovations. It’s also right on the water and the view cannot be beat.  You can check out our experience here.

The Montage | A beyond stunning hotel, we stayed there and you can see photos snapped at this gorgeous hotel here and here.

Casa Laguna | I’ve never stayed here BUT we almost have multiple times! It’s a really charming, recently renovated boutique hotel that is too cute for words. Just check out the photos on their website and you’ll see what I mean!

Favorite Places to Eat:

Nick’s | Great spot for lunch or dinner.

The Deck | The perfect happy hour on the beach with an incredible view of sunset and surfers.  It’s also great to stay for dinner, but if you go make sure you go early enough to see the sunset!

Driftwood Kitchen | This restaurant is right next door to The Deck and also an incredible meal on the water. It’s definitely more upscale but a really special place. I’ve had their Sunday brunch and it is also really fabulous!

Rooftop Lounge | Great spot for a cocktail.

Carmelita’s | Everyone talks about this place and I always forget to make a reservation and refuse to wait 2.5 hours – but it’s apparently it’s supposed to be really good!

Favorite Activities:

Downtown Laguna | Honestly it’s just really fun to walk around downtown Laguna. There are tons of shops, volleyball games on the beach, gelato shops, gift shops – Laguna is my favorite spot in all of Orange County!

Hike | Top of the World

Art Galleries | I would consider Laguna one of the most creative/artsy towns in OC. There are so many galleries throughout the downtown area, and if you’re an art lover, this is your spot.

Pageant of the Masters | This is a well-known theater program that is offered in the summers, and it was on our OC bucket list when we moved here. All I knew was that is was historic art “coming to life.” I know this sounds insane, but you can catch a sneak peek here. It’s one of the most incredible experiences I’ve ever seen!

Newport Beach

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Favorite Places to Stay:

The Resort at Pelican Hill | I’ve never had the luxury of actually staying here but I’ve spent a day at the pool and had lunch here numerous times and it’s absolutely gorgeous. In my opinion, Pelican Hill and The Montage have the best pools in Orange County. The views are unreal and I’ve heard staying here is just as fabulous.

Favorite Places to Eat:

Fig & Olive | I love the lunch menu here, the crostinis are just as delicious as they are gorgeous.

Lemonade | The kind of place you can take anyone and there will be something for everyone. So many options and so delicious!

True Food Kitchen | I like to take our families here because this casual restaurant is very “California” for out of towners. Healthy, nutritious and delicious – and mostly vegetarian!

The Cannery | A very “Newport” spot and a pretty view of the harbor.  I’ve spotted some B-list celebrities there too!

Sol Cucina | Definitely my fave Mexican restaurant in Newport.  There are always some Real Housewife spottings there, and you know I love that.

Beachcomber | A litte further of a drive but a great place for brunch, you can see some photos I’ve snapped of this spot here.  They don’t take reservations, but you can wait for your table on the beach OR you can even hike Crystal Cove and then come over for brunch.  The food isn’t necessarily award-winning, but the atmosphere is really cute and on the beach.  Definitely an OC landmark!

Favorite Activities:

Fashion Island has a great mix of your Kitson and Brandy Melville’s as well as local boutiques.

South Coast Plaza (technically Costa Mesa) | Has your Valentino, Cartier, Hermes… as well as Forever21, Nordstrom and the basics. This is the country’s third largest mall and the highest earning mall in the States, so trust me, it has everything.

Balboa Island is also a really cute spot to visit.  Very old school and they have the banana stands from Arrested Development!

Farmers Markets are always a fun activity to taste test, peruse and grab some snacks.  This site covers the entire county.

Renting paddleboards or a duffy boat on the Newport Harbor can be really fun too!

Olde Towne Orange / Anaheim

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I live in this area because Christian has to live within 10 minutes of the hospitals where he works because of his call schedule. While I have absolutely loved living in this charming little town (the home of Chapman University!), I wouldn’t necessarily recommend staying in this area if you’re visiting. I would recommend staying in Laguna or Newport (more visitor-friendly spots)! BUT if you are planning to leave the beach for some adventures…

Favorite Places to Eat: 

Smoqued | My favorite BBQ in the area. Their nachos are on another level!

Gabbi’s | Upscale Mexican food and one of our favorite date night spots.

Bruxie | This is the original location and a spot we always take visitors. Waffle sandwiches and the best chicken tenders you’ve ever had. Some of my favorite comfort food (and they have custard milkshakes that will knock your socks off).

Lanta Thai Fusion | One of our favorite Thai takeout spots. We used to fight over the Panang Curry and now we just order double. SO GOOD!

Orange Hill Restaurant | Another one of our favorite date nights spots with sweeping views of both Orange County and LA. Bonus if you’re there around 9/10PM, you’ll get to see the Disney fireworks!

Favorite Activities:

The Orange Circle, also know as “The Plaza,” is our most visited spot.  We walk or ride our bikes here, and there are shops, restaurants, bars and during Christmas-time it’s just magic.

Disneyland and California Adventure | Only a few miles from our home, we hear the 9:30PM Disney fireworks every night like clockwork. I’ve been several times and really, isn’t it always fun to be a kid again? It’s also why I love riding bikes whenever we can!

Los Angeles Angels of Anaheim | Catching a game is always a good time. Bonus points if you get to see the 4th of July fireworks!

Anaheim Packing District | We love coming to this warehouse that has been transformed into an awesome venue with live music, tons of great pop-up restaurants and something for everyone. From indulgent and decorative popsicles and cotton candy boba tea to Cajun food, fish and chips and Indian food – you can come here with a group and everyone gets to try something different.

Center Street Promenade | This area has boutiques and outdoor restaurants and is a great area to take a group. The palm trees and bistro lights at night aren’t bad either.

I hope this helps some of you looking to visit this gorgeous stretch of California. Honestly I pinch myself regularly that I get to call this area home. Let me know if you have any OC favorites that I may have missed! Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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When 4th of July rolls around it’s time to pull out the red, white and blue! Plus it always means it’s less than two weeks from my birthday, so it feels like double the celebration.

I styled this top as a dress (it’s actually intended to be a dress) on Instagram here, but for this outfit I just buttoned it halfway and knotted it at the waist.  Bailey and I are in matching bandanas, and truth be told, when she’s wearing a bandana I can’t resist her. She is at her cuteness peak in a bandana!

You can find some 4th of July outfits from years past here and here, and I also think this and this would be great for the weekend. And of course this gorgeous dress if you’re getting dressed up!

I hope you guys are planning a fun and safe weekend. Christian is on call this weekend so we’ll be laying low, but I love any opportunity to take some time to stop, relax and remember all the brave men and women who have served for our freedom.  Something we so often take for granted, but as we all know, freedom isn’t free. Whenever I see someone in uniform (usually in the airport) I always make a point to stop and say, “thank you for your service.”  And even then – it’s not enough!

As someone who doesn’t have any family members who have served, I’d love to hear if there are other things we can do as bystanders to help support these men and women. I’d love any suggestions from those of you who have lived it!

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top (a dress worn as a top!), also love this one and this one | shorts (25% off), also love these (on sale!) and these | heels (35% off!), also available here | lipstick in F-Bomb | bandana | bag | cable bracelet 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7 | albion ring | sunglasses, also love these

AND I couldn’t go without telling you all the amazing sales going on this weekend! Below are some that I’ll be shopping –

Ann Taylor | 50% off everything

Anthropologie | extra 30% off sale items

ASOS | up to 70% off sale items

Banana Republic | 40% off regular-priced items with code BRNEW

H&M | up to 70% off with some deals as low as $4 with code EXTRA40

J.Crew | extra 50% off sale styles with code SALETIME

J.Crew Factory | 50% off everything + extra 50% off sale with code FOURTHFUN

Loft | 50% off everything with code SPARKLER

Macy’s | give $3 and take an extra 25% off

Mark & Graham | take an extra 35% off all sale styles with code EXTRA35

ModCloth15% Off , 20% Off $100+, 30% Off $200

NastyGal | 50% off everything

Pottery Barn | 5th of July sale, up to 70% off

Parker NY | up to 70% off and 25% off sale items

Rebecca Minkoff | up to 60% off sitewide

Rebecca Taylor | extra 40% off with code JULYSURPRISE

Sam Edelman |  20% off sale with code 4THOFSAM20

Shopbop | new sale styles added; up to 70% off

Tuckernuck | 20% off sitewide on orders over $200 with code HBDUSA

Urban Outfitters | take 30% off all sale items

Thank you so much for reading and of course, happy 4th to all of you – XO –

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yellow maxi dress

I wore this dress this week in Laguna Beach, and it felt like the first day of summer all over again.  When it comes to summer outfits, ModCloth is one of my favorite sites for cheerful, fun and unique looks that are sure to turn heads. I styled one of their swim looks last year here!

Walking from my car to a restaurant I got three compliments on this dress. Three! It’s so cute with the ruffle shoulder straps and hem, and I love that instead of just being floral, it has photos of different floral bouquets with the names written underneath. So charming.

I’m sharing some of my favorite dresses from ModCloth at the bottom of this post, and you guys – there’s a little big of everything. Maxi, midi, mini in stripes, floral, ruffled and off the shoulder… plus the adorable bag on major markdown that I ordered for myself this week.  It’s shaped like A FISH!

I can’t. Too cute!

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dress, also love this one and this one | bag (small), also love this one and bought this one this week (on sale and seriously… beyond adorable) | heels, similar look for less here | earrings | lipstick in Color Me Confident  | “3” necklace

Are you guys getting ready for the weekend? I am going to be sharing some holiday-inspired looks over on Instagram, so if you’re looking for some outfit inspo, come visit! Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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maidenform slip

Sponsored by Maidenform

Shapewear. A topic that we don’t really talk about, but a kind of undergarment that is in most women’s drawers. There’s no reason we should be shy about it! I discovered shapewear in college, and regardless of your size, it provides support and helps create a smooth and sculpted silhouette that just makes every dress fall more beautifully.

I’ve added this Maidenform Endlessly Smooth Firm Control Convertible Slip to my collection, and it’s proven to not only be versatile, but also beautiful, sleek and comfortable in design.  It also has optional shoulder straps that can be formed into criss-cross, halter or traditional shoulder straps.  They can also be removed for a strapless slip.

In addition, I have Maidenform’s Firm Foundations Thigh Slimmer shorts and they are the perfect companion to any dress or skirt.  This was the first style of shapewear I owned and a design I’ve been wearing for almost ten years.

My third and final favorite undergarment piece would be the half slip. So often I will wear a dress and readers ask, “what are you wearing underneath this? I ordered it and it’s so see-through!” Um… A SLIP YOU GUYS! I often pair a slip with summer dresses, and the Maidenform Undercover Slimming Firm Control Skorty comes in both black and nude. It provides not only the benefits of a slip but also a some thigh slimming control, serving double duty.

AND, today I’m offering three CBL readers the chance to win their pick of these three undergarments! Scroll down to see how you can enter to win.


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Maidenform Endlessly Smooth Firm Control Convertible Slip, also have and love the Firm Foundation Thigh Slimmer and recommend the Undercover Slimming Firm Control Skorty | robe (on sale) | red dress here and here | heels | bag

AND after sharing my full relationship with shapewear, I am excited to team up with Maidenform to offer THREE CBL readers the chance to win whichever of these three styles they would like to add to their own undergarment collection!

To enter:

Competition will start on June 29 at 12am PST and will end on July 5 at 12AM PST. Winner(s) will be contacted via email. All entries will be verified, so please follow the steps below!

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Thanks so much for reading and entering! XO –

* Update 7/6: The winners have been contacted! They are Pamela Lozano, Kalley Leer and Maggie Dircio. Thank you SO much for everyone who entered! *

Disclaimer: By entering, entrants confirm that they are 18+ years of age, release Instagram of responsibility, and agree to Instagram’s terms of use. Hanesbrands, Inc. and Maidenform are the prize sponsors only.

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It’s no secret that I am former pageant gal (shoutout Miss Mississippi Teen USA… a million years ago), so I have a few beauty hacks up my sleeve.  Some of them are still useful today, others not so much. And by not so much I mean roller ball booty glue to keep your swimsuit from moving around while you’re onstage. Again… not as useful.

BUT today I want to share some of my favorite beauty tricks that I still use all the time. And of course, if you have any hidden secrets up your sleeve, spill it ladies!

1)  Toupee Tape for Body/Fabric Tape | This is my favorite by a landslide. What is going to be stronger to hold that dress to your chest than the tape that holds a man’s toupee to his dome!?

2)  Castor Oil in Hair | I just discovered this hair mask recently and have been loving the results. Once a week I give my mane an oil treatment. I massage it into my scalp for about five minutes, accelerating blood circulation to the scalp and increasing hair growth. It also nourishes the scalp and strengthen the roots. Then I just put all my hair in a top knot for up to six hours and forget about it.  I’m about out of this batch and just ordered this one. For a step by step video of how I do it, you can watch this video.

3)  Coconut Oil for Makeup Remover | This is less of a secret these days, but I’ve been using coconut oil for all kinds of beauty needs for the past five years or so. This was actually something I learned from the product development team at Urban Decay! In the winters I will mix some with my body lotion if my skin is dry. Love this article with multiple uses for coconut oil!

4)  Cocoa Butter Swivel Stick as Chapstick | When I worked at Southern Living, I had the most darling coworker who now lives in New York. I was a Mentholatum addict, and she introduced me to this Cocoa Butter Swivel Stick as chapstick. ADDICTED. I have one in my bedside table, one in my handbag and I use one with SPF in the summer!

5)  Charcoal Powder for Teeth Whitening | I just discovered this recently after too many disappointing teeth whitening results, and I love it. I try to use it once or twice a month before I brush my teeth and you instantly see results. I also took it to my dentist and he agreed that as long as I am not using it everyday, there shouldn’t be any damage to my enamel.

I hope some of you found these tips helpful! Would love to hear any tricks you might have. Thanks so much for reading – XO

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dressing up cropped flare denim

Last week I styled these jeans in a more casual post here. I wanted to share a dressed up post featuring the same pair to show one of the main reason I love this silhouette – it looks just as great with flats as it does with heels. AND, this similar pair is on sale for only $20, so also… there’s that!

I’m loving the return of the high-waisted “mom jean” because not only does it flatter girls that like to highlight their waists (confessions of a crop top lover), but it also provides a little more suck-you-in power than low-rise denim. No muffin-tops welcome here!

I think these jeans would also look fab with ankle booties, a black turtleneck and Gucci belt or a crop top and strappy sandals. They’re fun, they’re different and best of all, they’re really comfortable.


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denim, similar pair here over 50% off and under $20! Also love this splurge version | top, also love this one  and this one (40% off). The romper version is here | similar pumps here and here | bag, similar look for less here (30% off) | earrings | opal statement ring | pinky ring | similar sunglasses here and here | initial ring

Thanks so much for reading! And tell me – are you open to this trend or is it a no go? XO –

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– a boho fringed throw blanket from Little Giraffe that is my new favorite blanket, AND readers can get 20% off all full-priced items site-wide with code KATHLEEN20! –

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– new earrings from Kendra Scott that are perfect for summer, find them here and here

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– some new coconut products from Marc Jacobs that smell like summer in the best possible way, find them here, here and here

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Happy Friday! I think I’m still on cloud 9 from all of your incredibly sweet comments on Tuesday’s post and on Instagram. If I saw Christian for more than like… four hours this week I would have read them all to him! But I speak for both of us when I say thank you. Thank you, thank you, thank you. Isn’t it crazy to feel like you’re friends with people you’ve never met in person? I feel that way about so many of you!

This week has been a great catch-up week. C (poor guy) has been working some really long days but I’ve just hunkered down at my desk and caught up on a lot of projects and emails. Which means I’ve been going through a lot of coffee and snuggled up in my desk chair with my new Moroccan wedding throw blanket from Little Giraffe.

You. Guys. I LOVE IT. I am a lover of all throw blankets, but I don’t have anything like this and it’s just as soft and cozy as it is cute! You can get 20% off with code KATHLEEN20, and it also comes in charcoal gray. And on that  note, there are some amazing sales happening this weekend:

Bloomingdale’s | $25 off $100 with code PRIVATE through 6/25

Express | up to 70% off

H&M | up to 60% off

J.Crew | up to 50% off sale items with code SALESSTYLE through 6/25

Neiman Marcus | up to 55% off through 6/25

Neiman Marcus Last Call | extra 10% off

Pottery Barn | extra 20% off sale items with code EXTRA20

SAKS | up to 40% off swimwear

West Elm | up to 70% off

Williams Sonoma | up to 70% off with code SUMMER

This weekend C is on call and I have a project to work on and need to steal his Wrangler to take a big load of things to The Salvation Army. The summer clean-out this week has been real! Hoping to squeeze in some pool time in between so I can finish up this book and this book – I have like, less than 50 pages of each to read. I always stall when I don’t want books to end!

Thanks so much for reading! I appreciate you guys so much. XO –

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cropped flare denim

I don’t know what feels more like summer than classic denim, straw accessories and blue jeans.  A classic look that everyone can pull off! And when it comes to classic summer outfits, PacSun has you covered. They have such a great selection of denim and after loving the cropped flare denim trend on so many other girls, I decided to give them a try.

I love that this pair is high-waisted, has some stretch and is so comfortable.  You guys know I’m not shy about loving a crop top, and a high-waisted pair of pants or shorts is the perfect duo when it comes to balancing out the trend. I also think this look would be perfect for back-to-school, paired with a top like this!

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I’m linking some additional summer favorites from PacSun above that I think would look awesome with cropped flare denim! Thanks so much for reading and tell me – is this denim silhouette something you’ll be trying? It took me a little longer to jump on the trend train, but now that I have I have to admit… I dig it.

Stay tuned because I’ll be sharing how I dress up these jeans next week!  XO –

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If this off the shoulder maxi dress looks super familiar, it’s because you’ve seen it in this post or on maannnyyy other bloggers – either one! I have loved the other color palette version so much that I was tickled to receive a surprise package from the Donna Morgan team with the same silhouette in another color scheme.

You know I love it.

Even better that it is on sale at three different retailers, so if you’ve been eyeing it too – today’s your day!

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dress, also available here and hereall on sale! If you’re in between sizes, size down. | sandals, love these too (30% off) | earrings | bag | sunglasses | “3” necklace | initials ring | opal statement ring

And of course I cannot go without saying thank you x a MILL for yesterday’s sweetness in our “fellowship reveal” blog post. We could have been packin’ all of our lives in pods and moving across the country (again), so we feel really blessed, relieved and thankful that we can just hop up the coast a few hours! God is good and I appreciate you guys so much!

Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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I shared recently in this post that this spring has been a more-stressful-than-usual season for us because Christian has chosen to pursue a medical fellowship after his Otolaryngology (ENT) residency. This means he has traveled to 14 cities and interviewed for a one-person fellowship position… with less than 50 available spots in the U.S. + Canada.

As a surgical subspecialty within an already small speciality… it’s extremely competitive. It’s stressful, exhausting and quite expensive.

I shared his ENT residency match in this reveal four years ago, so it felt appropriate to do the same this time, showing all of the places he has been traveling since March.

New York x 2, San Francisco, Austin, Houston, Kansas City, St. Louis, Atlanta, Chicago x 2, Philadelphia…

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Christian has matched in Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery in…

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Oh snap! Cali has us hooked for another year and you know I’m not complainin’!  Christian matched last week and we’ve been celebrating ever since.  We still have one more year (year #5) for Christian to finish up his ENT residency and then we’ll move to San Francisco for one year for his 10th and final year of training post-college. Ten. Years. The light at the end of the tunnel is there, guys. I can see it!!

In the meantime, we are really enjoying this palm tree journey God has blessed us with. It would have been really easy to stay in Mississippi or the South, and that would have been great too… but I am so proud of Christian for spreading his wings and seeing what’s out there. To put yourself out there is not only extremely vulnerable but also can be a big risk, and dreaming BIG doesn’t come without both successes and failures (speaking from my own experiences). We’re in it together and have always encouraged each other to take the leap of faith… and here we are again, with another adventure ahead of us.

I’ve always thought he was one of the smartest fish I’ve ever met, and it’s been a beautiful thing to watch him discover that for himself.  My boy is growing up and I feel so privileged to be a small part of his success! CHBoo, I’ll ride the coattails of your lottery ticket any day.

Thanks so much for all of your support over the years. Honestly, there have been some really long and hard/lonely days and your comments and feedback have given me a feeling of community and a lump in my throat. You guys will never know how much I value and appreciate you.

And of course… I have another year to soak up SoCal and graciously accept any SF recommendations you guys have!  C has dabbled in looking at housing in the area where he’ll be working and it happens to be one of the most expensive neighborhoods in one of the most expensive cities in the country… so I am just expecting to shell out, enjoy it and live like this for a year.  That handbag I was going to buy myself for my birthday? Yeah, I decided that maybe I would just save that cash instead. #Adulting.

I actually pulled up this post back in 2014 when Christian and I drove up the coast to San Francisco to visit my brother and his fam when they were living there.  And I already started making a bucket list like I did for SoCal when I found out we were moving here!

Thanks so much for reading and sharing in this celebratory moment with us – love you mean it! XO –

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what to wear to a summer wedding

One of the questions I get the most from you guys is, “what do I wear to a (insert season) wedding?” SO, I’ve decided I want to share a post every season this year so that everyone’s questions are answered!

In the spring I shared my spring wedding style here, and today we’re covering summer.  If this summer you’re working with a tan, I love wearing something yellow, mint, red or coral to really highlight that bronzed glow.

No tan? No problem (although you can always try out my favorite self-tanner, love these too!).  If you’re not rocking a little color, I love pink, anything floral and shades of blue.

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dress (if you’re in between sizes, size up) also love this one and the white version if you’re the bride! Other similar styles here, here and here | heels, similar look for less here | bag, also love this one (33% off) | earrings | statement ring | similar sunglasses

Below are some of my favorite summer wedding dress options.  And of course, it goes without saying that never, ever wear white or cream to a wedding or any of the bridal events. Unless it’s like… a white crop top with a patterned skirt or something.  This is coming from a former bride that had someone wear white to her hometown engagement party and a few guests got us confused. Don’t be that girl!

 

If you have something to add that you think I’m missing, I’d love to hear!

Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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– this rustic portfolio bag from Duluth Pack, use code CARRIELIED20 for 20% off handcrafted items –

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– waking up to a special delivery from Crumbs of what I call “jacked up cronuts,” the churro one was the best! –

urban decay eyeshadow palette

– a new seriously gorgeous Naked Heat Palette from Urban Decay that is going to be all I wear this summer –

sofia coppola champagne

– a special Sofia Coppola delivery that is the perfect way to kick off summer (and I mean that straw!!) –

white hydrangeas

– Christian bringing me flowers to celebrate some exciting news in our house –

Happy Friday! This has been one of the happiest week’s I’ve had in a while because Christian matched for his fellowship in Facial Plastic and Reconstructive Surgery! Yayayayaya! I plan to share more about the experience (including where we will be moving next year) in a full blog post next week, but this week we’ve been relishing in the celebration of his success with family and close friends.

To say I’m proud of him after this exhausting interview journey would be an understatement. He continues to blow me away with his smarts, and it brings me so much joy to find others who are also charmed by this gentleman I have the privilege of claiming.

Ok – now if that wasn’t braggadocios enough (I’m sorry… sometimes it just spills out of me like word vomit and I can’t stop), let’s touch on this week’s highlights, shall we?  This Duluth Pack Portfolio is my favorite travel bag lately because it perfect fits our tech gadgets and still has plenty of room for extra travel needs. Plus it’s perfectly gender-neutral. The Bison leather is seriously just so pretty. AND you can get 20% off with code CARRIELIED20!

Also, can we just stop to admire this new Naked Heat Palette from Urban Decay!? I’ve literally been wearing it every time I do my makeup since I received it and I don’t know if it’s just me, but I think it looks insanely gorgeous with brown eyes. I’m not really an orange person but turns out… it looks bomb with brown eyes.

I think that’s a wrap for this week! Thanks so much for all of your love and suggestions for blog posts. I am like, waist-deep in tech/coding/design things with this site so I’ve been so left-brained for the past month, my right-brained creative side just wasn’t functioning! Appreciate you guys. Thank you for reading! XO –

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