Every time I put up all of the Christmas decorations, I start to get that home decor itch. I get the desire to rearrange furniture, start perusing online… spend a little bit of that Christmas money, honey.

I may have ordered a few things last week. More details below. To shop, click directly on the item or find its associated number below the collage –

 

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The family room where we spend the most time is a pretty tight space. When we have guests over, I’m always trying to rearrange to accommodate and make people comfortable. So I ordered two of these side tables I’m hoping I can use as benches when needed. I ordered one of these too in case the others don’t work. TBD!

I don’t know where I would put this bench, but I want it. It looks so much more expensive than it is!

I used some Christmas money to splurge on a Frame TV for our bedroom. We explored them for our den when we first moved into our house, but Christian wanted some other features for our primary TV. However, for our bedroom, I think it’s going to be awesome. I’m really excited!

I bought four of these wine glasses for myself after thinking about them for months. They’re so pretty and make any drink feel a little fancier.

I also bought this floor lamp for our bedroom because when we hang the new TV I’ll have to relocate some table lamps and I know I’ll mix the extra light. I hope it is as adorable in person as it looks online.

If I needed a coffee table, I’d try this one out. I love the lines. It comes in side tables also!

What about you? Are you in the decor refresh mindset or not so much? I’d love to hear what you have your eye on. Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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favorite amazon purchases

I’m still working on my best overall buys of 2022 and I shared the most popular items from you guys here, but today we are discussing my top purchases from Amazon!

Let’s get into it –

Drawer Knife Block

You know when you implement a small luxury that makes you feel like a wealthy person? That’s what this knife block is to me. It fits so perfectly in a drawer and cleans up the countertop. Win!

Aura Digital Frame

We gave my mom one of these frames last year and she loves it. It is SO easy to upload photos straight to the app and she constantly has new photos of her grandkids in rotation.

Recently I thought, “why don’t I have one of these!?” I take so many photos of our kids and would absolutely love to see them constantly. It’s the photo equivalent of a daily gratitude journal for me. Constantly showing the highlights of my own life and reminding me how blessed I am.

It’s in my kitchen, I love it and can’t recommend it enough!

Baby Brezza

When I finished nursing Theo, I treated myself to the Baby Brezza. It’s basically a Keurig for babies.

I love it. Theo loves it. I am happy to report it’s been worth the investment!

Embellished Kitten Heels

I love a stiletto and block heel so very much. But post-2020 and having two small kids… they’re worn less and less often.

The kitten heels or heels up to 2″ are the most worn dress-up shoe most times. And when I bought these in black, I quickly returned to Amazon to buy them in red also. LOVE. If you’re in between sizes, I would go with the larger size.

Bodycon Midi Dress

I own this Skims dress, and it’s incredibly flattering. Highly recommend.

So when I heard this version was a dupe I had to try it out. And it is very good!! It fits more like a midi dress than a maxi but it’s worth the purchase for sure. It runs true to size.

Heatless Curls

I kept seeing this on Tik Tok and had to know if it really works. Can I sleep in damp hair and wake up with legitimate curls/waves?

IT WORKS, Y’ALL. Granted, I need to touch up some spots after sleeping in it, but that takes about 1-2 minutes. I would absolutely try this out if you have long hair. I’m not sure it would work as well for shorter hair.

Nesting Bowls with Lids

I love these nesting bowls because they cut back on washing dishes when you can mix up a salad and then put a lid and place it back in the fridge. So helpful and more compact for storage!

Glass Dispensers

These are so pretty if you keep your olive oil out. I do because I cook with it daily, and I love that this is still visually nice to look at.

Crochet Coverup

I bought this coverup in both black (seen here) and white (seen here) and took them to Mexico in October. They are so fabulous – highly recommend!

Spode Pasta Bowls

I love pasta bowls for almost every meal. Salads, anything with a sauce or broth, etc. These are so beautiful, dishwasher and microwave-safe.

Now I want four more!

Claw Clips

These are so easy to throw in and go. Love ’em.

Sleeveless Sweater Dress

I love this dress so much that I bought it in multiple colors. You can easily wear them through spring, summer, and fall (layer a blazer and boots, done!).

If you have a favorite Amazon buy from 2022, I would love to hear it. I find these kinds of recs fascinating! Thank you so much for reading – XO –

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kathleen barnes top sellers

This is the first of a two-part 2022 recap series. Today we are discussing your most loved items, and then we’ll check out some of my personal favorite purchases and why.

Many of you may know this, but each Friday I share five CBL top sellers on social media – Instagram, Facebook, Twitter, and LTK. I love taking that time to see what you guys gravitate toward, what kinds of pieces make you feel good, and the color palettes you find wearable.

So after all these weeks and months, here are the 10 items you guys loved most in 2022 –

square neck top

Amazon Square Neck Sweater Top

This was a more recent purchase and it’s super flattering. I love the color variety it comes in, and it looks more luxe than the price tag. You can see this top in a video here.

spanx perfect pant

Spanx Hi-Rise Flare Pant

One of my favorite non-denim pairs of pants ever. They are elongating, smoothing, and timeless.

black tapered jogger

Spanx Tapered Pant

My favorite and most worn travel pant this winter. Incredibly comfortable but much more polished than sweats!

sam edelman western boot

Western Bootie

These were an #NSale purchase, and they really look cute with everything in the spring and fall. Especially midi dresses and crop wide-leg jeans!

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Pink Flutter Sleeve Dress

I wore this so often over the summer. It has awesome pockets, is so roomy and comfortable. Plus I love that it’s a fun color to throw on.

mini top handle bag

Top Handle Mini Bag

I was gifted a few bright colors from the brand and then I wore them so much that I purchased two more colors. I wear these all the time.

amazon black leggings

Amazon $28 Leggings

These have over 13k reviews and if you end up with a pair, you’ll understand why.

collared shirt dress

Black Collared Shirt Dress

This is the most deceiving little dress because I’ve worn it pre, during, and after my pregnancy with Theo. It’s classic and the loose shape is the best.

spanx skinny pant

Spanx Perfect Pant – Skinny

If Audrey Hepburn was a pant. Except these are Spanx, which means they’re the best. You can see these in video here.

chambray ruffle shirt dress

Chambray Shirt Dress

I cannot wear this dress without getting a compliment. It’s that kind of dress, but such a wearable color that isn’t super memorable.

Thank you for your encouragement, kindness, and support last year and every year. This website from 2011 has really slowly morphed into my dream job and the most amazing career that allows me to have a flexible schedule for my family. I have so much gratitude!

Here’s to 2023! Thank you so much for stopping by – XO –

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family photos

Christmas weekend is here! This will be Theo’s first Christmas, and between that and Hudson being a fresh 3 y/o with a lot of excitement, I think it’s going to be a great one.

I will be taking next week off to spend some downtime with the boys before the new year starts. I hope some of you get to do the same! I used to take this week for myself and it was amazing. Now that I have little ones, there is little to no childcare that week, so it’s forced family time. But I try to plan some play dates and adventures to make it feel special. I’m hoping that I’m able to disconnect and give them my attention.

I’ve got plans to play Mexican Train Dominoes, watch The Family Stone with a cup of cider and make this Texas Trash Pie for the first time. YUM. I’d love to hear what you’re making!

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card designed by Steffa Reeves Stationery

“For a child has been born – for us! The gift of a son – for us! He’ll take over the running of the world. His names will be: Amazing Counselor, Strong God, Eternal Father, Prince of Wholeness. His ruling will grow, and there will be no limits to the wholeness he brings.” Isaiah 9:6, MSG

Thank you so much for blessing my life by supporting this business and allowing me to be a small part of your day. You’ve made my professional dreams come true, truly.

Merry Christmas to you and yours – XO –

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sequined caftan

I can’t think of a better sequin outfit for a holiday party. It’s festive, it’s loose, it’s a one-size-fits-all concept, and of course, the sparkle of it all.

I have had this dress hanging over my closet door just so I can look at it. That’s how much fun it is!

A few more holiday looks you might like…

peplum top with silk skirt

pink and burgundy

9 NYE looks

sheer details, also this one

sequin pencil skirt

sequin dress

red + leopard

velvet midi dress

sequined caftanfil de vie caftansequined caftantove sequin caftansequin dresschristian louboutin pigalle blacksequined caftan

photos by Allie Murray

caftan – fil de vie, also love this one and this one | heels, look for less here | earrings (love the gold versions too) | room details

Thank you so much for reading – XO –

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Today I’m sharing my Christmas wish list… ok fine, some of these I already own. Consider them “early” gifts I purchased for myself. But now I know how great they are which is why I have to share them!

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I bought both this dish and this loaf pan over Cyber Week when they were marked down. And wrapped them myself to put under the tree. I will likely forget about them before the 25th, trust me.

I bought this dress before we went to Mexico in October. I now have my eye on the long-sleeved version. It is so flattering and crazy comfortable. A++!

I ordered these fur-cuffed jeans for myself on sale and hope they look as cute on me as they do the model. Also waiting on these. Couldn’t help myself!

I love this vase for an orchid so much. Also this one.

I have these wrist and ankle weights and really need to use them more. So sleek.

I was on the waitlist for three of these scalloped bath mats for our primary bathroom.

Christian renews my AD Magazine every year. I love getting them each month. It’s the gift that keeps giving, and I always keep old issues!

For more holiday gift guides:

Gifts Under $35

Gifts Under $50

Gifts for the Guys

Gifts for Parents + Grandparents

Gifts for the Kids

Gifts for Hosts

For my holiday content, check out the “Holiday Gifts & Decor” category and find a walk-through of this year’s holiday decor here. Thank you so much for reading and Merry Christmas – XO –

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Today’s gift guide is for the hosts and hostesses this month. For the ladies (not to be sexist, but it’s *probably* the ladies, right?) who have spent hours preparing to host you so now you want to make feel a little special in return.

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Some of these are my go-to picks for hosts and I will dive into why.

A chic cookbook like this one or this one (on my list). Even better if paired with a stand like this, recipe tin or an apron.

Something edible – a delicious pecan tin trio or truffle salt.

An orchid (another top pick of mine) or a vase with fresh flowers.

This gold dinner bell! LOVE.

A beautiful candle like this one with a compact lighter.

Handpainted ornaments or a special tree ornament. These would be my pick because I have and love them.

For more holiday gift guides:

Gifts Under $35

Gifts Under $50

Gifts for the Guys

Gifts for Parents + Grandparents

Gifts for the Kids

For my holiday content, check out the “Holiday Gifts & Decor” category and find a walk-through of this year’s holiday decor here. Thank you so much for reading! My own holiday wish list is coming up next – XO –

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citizenry lumbar pillow

this lumbar pillow I recently got and love so much –

christmas tree topper diy

– having so much fun with ribbon this year on the trees –

record player

– pulling out my grandparents records (record player) –

sketch portraits

– having these portraits custom-framed locally and loving how they turned out so much! –

brass door knocker

– putting this door knocker on display that was on the door when we purchased our house –

A confession that I took these photos before I took the Holiday Home Tour photos. This is why you’re seeing a few repeat-style shots today!

This week felt constant. It’s interesting that the holidays are intended to be the most joyous, cheerful time when for some it can be a really high-stress or hectic time. I felt my fuse becoming shorter by the day and am trying to lighten my schedule so I can relax a little bit more and ultimately reflect that in my behavior.

I’ve been watching season two of Firefly Lane while working this week. I love that show! The strength of a lifelong friendship. Pretty sweet stuff. I’ve seen both teaser and trailer for Harry & Megan and all I can say is… big yikes. The feedback I’m reading is a big yikes. Have you seen it? Would love to hear what you think.

I worked all day yesterday Wednesday watching this on YouTube on the TV while a Christmas candle was lit. It was heavenly. Highly recommend

We have a busy weekend – truly day and night. But it’s full of sweet holiday things, and I hope it will feel more exciting than exhausting. Fingers crossed! Writing right now I’m really sounding like a major homebody. I guess I am! Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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9' flocked christmas tree

I wasn’t planning on doing a decor post this year, but once I put everything up I couldn’t help but snap a few photos. 200+ photos later… I am now working on a post at 10PM. But it’s always fun to be on the website. This is where this little business started, and it’s still my favorite part of this gig.

Last year I shared the decorations here, and I was able to reference that post this year when pulling stuff out. It was very helpful! This year there are a few different and a few the same, but the furniture continues to be rearranged so that feels right.

Thanks for coming on this journey. There are a lot of photos, but I had a lot of fun snapping them.

To find each individual room, check out the “house tour” section of this site.

elf in a treefoyer holiday decormarble utensil holderkitchenaid rangegingerbread housesred and white christmas wreathsrosemary plantcitizenry coffee tablenaught or nice reversible pillowsewing down south nutcrackervelvet christmas stockingsholiday memory bookred bolster pillowlinen duvetlarge leaning mirrormini wreath on bedtufted headboarddining room christmas tree7.5' flocked christmas treeleaning mirrorpatience brewster nativity scenepink floral wallpapermoody floral wallpaperleaning mirrorpink velvet ribbonred and white bowsportable record playerjoseph mary jesuschildrens christmas booksmini wreathnativity toyflocked treecourtly check bowlred and white striped wreath bowslantern greenery

Thank you so much for reading and Merry Christmas! XO –

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This week’s wish list is all about the kids. So if you’re looking for some ideas for your own littles, neices/nephews or grandkids, let’s go.

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I don’t know a single toddler who isn’t obsessed with the Moana soundtrack. Hudson doesn’t even care that much about the actual movie, just the music. We listen to it daily in the car, so I have no doubt this Moana karaoke would be a HUGE hit.

I’m thinking about getting this robot crab for one of my nephews. I feel like it is both a brainy gift and a fun gift. I love that kind of gift for other kids. It makes me feel like the parents will be less annoyed with extra “stuff,” if there is a learning element there.

I know this singing pickle seems bizarre. Because it is. But my mom gave my nephew one and it’s small and silly. It always makes kids laugh and is an easy thing to take to a friend’s house and make giggle. Stocking stuffer idea!

We love our play kitchen. Sometimes Hudson plays in it alone, but most often we will play with it together. Add in an ice cream shop (every kid loves it), taco set or pizza set. Now, we’re cooking!

toy kitchen

Hudson got a sleeping bag for his birthday and he loves it. I love it too! I plan on taking it with us the next time we stay with siblings, which leads me to the next item.

We recently got two of these kids blowup mattresses and they are ADORABLE. They also have an airplane version, but I love the Cadillacs (even if they’re pink!). We’ll be bringing it with us on our next trip for sure. One of those gifts that’s both fun and practical.

Hudson has a Toniebox and listens to it every single night and morning. It’s by his bed, and rather than us sing songs to him, he likes to put a tonie character on and listen to it as he falls asleep. In the mornings, he will put different tonies on and keep himself entertained until I come to his room. We LOVE it.

blue toniebox

For more gift guides, check out the “holiday gifts & decor” section of this site. So far we have covered gifts under $50, gifts under $35, gifts for the guys, gifts for parents/grandparents, and now kids! More are coming. Thank you so much for reading – XO –

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bugundy boots

I have been so excited to wear this sweater and skirt set because it’s so cozy and also fits so well. The beauty of sweater skirts – both comfortable and curve-friendly.

I also love that knit skirts like this are easier to wear even if you’re a few lbs up from holiday festivities or whatever else has been going on in life. As someone who is pregnant every other year… I can appreciate that!

cream sweaterstrathberry bucket bagknit midi skirtcream midi skirtsweater skirtburgundy bagwe are kindred

sweater, also love this one and this similar style sweater dress | skirt, also love this one and this one (on sale) | similar boots here and here (on sale) | bag | hoop earrings | bracelets

You can find more fashion picks and fall looks in the “fashion” category of this site. And more gift guides coming! You can see all the ones shared so far in the “holiday gifts & decor” category. Thanks so much for reading – XO –

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Sharing some of my picks and favorite deals and discounts for Cyber Week! There are so many great sales that have already started, and I’ve already started shopping.

I’ve checked out with a ton of kids/baby items at H&M (30% off), I have some things in my cart at MacKenzie-Childs (20% off), and I’m considering buying one more of these cashmere pillows from Naked Cashmere (50% off).

Christian will be shopping at Mizzen + Main (25% off) and Banana Republic (30% off).

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Abercrombie | 30% off everything

Annie Selke | 25% off sitewide with code BIGDEAL25

Banana Republic | 30% off full-price items with code BRDAY30

BaubleBar | 30% off sitewide with code BB30

CB2 | up to 60% off

Electric Picks | 30% off sitewide with code BF30

Everlane | up to 50% off

H&M | 30% off

J.Crew | 50% off your purchase with code SHOPEARLY

Jennifer Behr | 30% off sitewide with code THANKFUL through 11/29

LAKE Pajamas | 25% off sitewide

Lisi Lerch | 40% off through 11/28

Lulu & Georgia | 25% off sitewide through 11/27

MacKenzie-Childs | 20% off sitewide with code MCJOY20

Madewell | 40% off your purchase with code OHJOY

Mango | 30% off totals over $200 with code EXTRA30

Mizzen + Main | 25% off everything with code THANKFUL25

Naked Cashmere | up to 50% off everything

Serena & Lily | 25% off everything with code GRATITUDE

Shopbop | 25% off everything

SPANX | 20% off sitewide (!!)

Tuckernuck | 20% off all orders sitewide, 25% off orders over $500, 30% off orders over $1k with code CYBER

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