– the new beach collection from Tuckernuck, full of glamorous caftans –

– the prettiest rosé earrings there ever were –

– not playing tennis, but wanted to look like it (top | skirt) –

– trying this hair mist for the first time and love it –

– designer sunglasses dupes that I am really loving –

We’ve made it to the weekend! And not just the weekend but also a holiday weekend. Triple points for that.

I had one of those weeks that I felt like SJP in I Don’t Know How She Does It, without the marital temptation, to be clear (!!). But know that I’m not referencing that as a compliment to myself. I’m saying it to express that I felt like I was juggling 15 things and running out the door wearing toddler sunglasses instead of my own. That kind of chaos. If you’re a woman… I know you know what I mean.

I’m learning more and more about how to say no to various things in my life. Even when it’s to things that I want to do but know that I can only take on so many things at this current stage of life. What helps me not have FOMO is knowing that:

A) This is a temporary phase. My children won’t all need hands-on help as they do now. When they’re more independent, making plans and executing them will be easier.

B) If I try to squeeze in too much, it usually ends up… kind of ruining everything. The result is usually me feeling spread too thin, a little panicky and perhaps a splash of bitter.

SO, with that in mind, learning to say “I’d really love to but unfortunately I’m spread too thin at the moment” is not only the truth but also freeing. If anyone has tips in this area, I’d love to hear how you handle phases when you feel overwhelmed!

I hope everyone has a beautiful weekend and enjoys the holiday. It does feel a little melancholy to be celebrating our nation’s independence when our country feels as divided as it has ever been (at least in my adult life). But there’s always something to be grateful for, that’s for sure.

Thank you so much for reading and y’all stay safe! XO –

– this scalloped tray that’s even prettier in person –

– my buddy who is never too far away (and I love it) –

– these sunglasses I haven’t taken off since I got them –

– moving this skirted ottoman around and loving that it has secret storage –

– a sweet neighborly flower drop-off –

Happy Friday! This week has been a really pleasant one. One of those weeks where you step back and think, “Wow, that was a really great week.” Thankful for the perspective to be able to recognize that. Every day likely isn’t going to be a GREAT day, but there are definitely moments in every day that are great. And that’s what I have been looking for lately.

I watched the J.Lo Netflix documentary over the weekend and when I tell you it was so good… it was so good! I have always liked her, but there is so much I didn’t know about the evolution of her career. You also get a behind-the-scenes peek into what it’s like to campaign for awards season, prepare for the Super Bowl Halftime show, etc. It was really fascinating and humanized these celebrities we assume don’t deal with similar challenges to our own – disappointment, frustration, pushback, family dynamics, etc. I definitely recommend giving it a watch.

We don’t have any big weekend plans. Just a hunt for a pool to dip into and a little bit of work. What are some of your favorite things to do in the peak of summer when it’s super hot? Thanks so much for reading and sharing – XO –

– these navy flare pants prove Spanx literally does it all –

– leaving out the croquet set because Hudson had a big time –

– the sweetest matching pajamas from Tuckernuck –

– a summer clutch bag from Jules Kae that will go with everything –

– gardenias blooming off of our patio –

Happy Friday! I can’t believe we have entered into June, the real, real start of summer. We are spending more and more time outside. And I’m extremely grateful for three ceiling fans on our covered patio. A necessity in Georgia!

Hudson has been talking nonstop about the beach. He asks us how many days until we are going to “get in da car and go to da beesh?” every day. And every morning he thinks it’s THE DAY. His excitement is so adorable. It makes me want to plan as many trips to the pool and/or beach as possible!

I have been trying to work full-time while being on solo duty with Theo the past two weeks. Some days are easier than others, but it’s still been a serious juggle. I didn’t realize that nearly every sitter I know is also living it up for summer and unavailable… so that’s been trickier than expected. It tests my patience, but I do try to remind myself what doesn’t get done isn’t going to be an emergency. This isn’t life or death so relax… when you can at least.

Being a mom while also trying to keep a hold on the interests, relationships and career that I still love so much has brought me some of my highest highs and absolutely my lowest lows. But I constantly remind myself that everything is temporary. Every age, every stage, every scenario – it’s all temporary. Don’t hold on to anything too tightly!

I hope all of you have a beautiful weekend and stay cool. Thank you so much for reading – XO –