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I recently shared a blog post about our days spent in Budapest here, and today I wanted to share more about our time spent in the next country on our big summer “babymoon” vacation… Vienna, Austria!

Truth be told, I didn’t know much about Vienna or Austria prior to this visit.  Christian had visited Austria once before when he was young but not for very long.  We both love visiting new places together, so it was exciting to anticipate what we might see.

Once we left Budapest, the tone changed for the trip because we were starting a little “babymoon” adventure.  Christian starts his job in September, so there was no better time to extend our stay and visit some new places.

And babymoon bliss it most definitely was.  After it’s all said and done, I must say… Vienna was our favorite part of the entire trip for numerous reasons.  The weather was amazing, the staff at The Ritz-Carlton Vienna went above and beyond to ensure it was the most special and memorable time, and the history and beauty of the city and country left us with our jaws on the ground.  We were not ready to leave when the day finally came to move onto Switzerland!

I knew there were palaces to be seen in Vienna, but I did not fully anticipate majestic and stunning they would be.  Nothing was too crowded. There were amazing audio guides taking us through each experience, and Christian’s peak of the trip was the House of Music (mentioned below).  One of my favorite parts of the trip was walking through the Vienna cobblestone streets at night and then returning to the Ritz-Carlton room to take a big bath in their huge soaking tub (photographed above) and elevating my feet. 

I realize that sounds ridiculous.  But we walked 7-9 miles every day. Thankfully I was back in my packed and prepared clothing and shoes, but I still felt like my calves and feet belonged to someone else.  The swelling and calf muscle situation of pregnancy has been one of the bizarre surprises of pregnancy but that’s neither here nor there.

I’ll be doing a separate post with tips for Europe travel and will include some pregnant gal tips separately in that post!

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WHERE WE STAYED

The Ritz-Carlton Vienna | This hotel completely blew us away.  It’s huge, and you can smell the intoxicating fragrance of the lobby before you even enter the hotel!  Upon arrival we visited the spa, which was the dreamiest way to kickstart our last big adventure before baby.

Our room had these incredibly tall ceilings with huge windows showing a view of the city, and the bathroom alone was a showstopper, and it had the most stunning tub of anywhere we stayed – the only one I made sure to take advantage of!  We have a master bathroom remodel ahead of us, and I literally was inspecting the tub with Christian.  We agreed it was the perfect tub.  I’m so glad I photographed it!

If we ever have the privilege of returning to Vienna, I wouldn’t look anywhere else.  The location was perfect for touring the city and all of the palaces.  There were plenty of excellent restaurants within walking distance, and I can’t imagine staying at more fabulous hotel.  It set the tone for 10 more days of travel European travel and babymoon fun. 

The Ritz-Carlton is where we shared with our families that we were having this baby, it’s where we celebrated our last big trip before the baby, and I know it is where we will continue to celebrate time together with and without our kids in the future.  It’s a major perk that there’s a fabulous Ritz-Carlton in both Atlanta and Lake Oconee that are next door to us at home!

DINING

DSTRKT SteakhouseThis was one of our top meals of the entire babymoon.  Christian loves a great steak and DSTRKT is one voted of the top steakhouses in Europe.  The sommelier picked out a non-alcoholic Prosecco for us to enjoy (so thoughtful!), we shared a steak, truffle fries and creamed spinach.  While too full for dessert, we returned another night just for coffee and their iconic cheesecake.  That was insane.  I didn’t eat cheesecake for the rest of the trip because I knew nothing would top it.

This was also the restaurant where we ate breakfast every morning and it was the best way to start the day.  We would tuck into a little table by the patio and drink cappuccinos and eat croissants and chia pudding while planning our activities for the day.  Loved it.

Plachutta | This restaurant was a recommendation from the hotel for one of their favorite spots for a traditional Austrian meal.  Both the hotel and our helpful server recommended the boiled beef (an Austrian favorite), so Christian and I shared it on their big patio outside.  I loved all the vegetables in the bone broth, and the creamed spinach and roasted potato sides were absolutely delicious.  Would definitely recommend!

Demel | Christian found this chocolate shop online, and we popped in for an afternoon treat. Turns out, Christian the tour guide strikes again – it’s famous amongst both tourists and locals!

Da Capo Pizzeria | We were so hungry and had pasta on the brain, so we saw this highly rated restaurant and took a stroll.  Our server had a pregnant wife so we just asked him to pick his favorite pasta, pizza and salad that had all cooked ingredients and he did a fantastic job!  Mocktail included.  Favorite Italian meal of the trip.

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ACTIVITIES

Schonbrunn Palace | Ok… where do I even start?!  This was the “summer home” of Sisi and the royal Austrian family and it’s beyond.  BEYOND.  The tour left me speechless, the gardens are massive and we spent an entire afternoon here.  Worth it on every level.

Imperial Treasury | This exhibit took me by surprise.  It was so much fun to see all of the capes and robes of royalty, down to the royal crib!  A small exhibit but absolutely worth a stop.

The Hofburg | A must when you visit Vienna!  We spent a large part of one of our days exploring Hofburg, and it was absolutely breathtaking. This included Sisi’s apartments and the royal silver collection.  It was so fascinating to learn about the woman that so much Austrian history is centered around.

House of Music | Christian’s peak of our entire Europe visit – the House of Music.  As the son of a piano teacher, a college physics major and an ear specialist… it was his Mecca.  The museum is divided into several floors that take deep dives into word renowned Austrian composers (Beethoven, Mozart, Strauss).  It also shares what sound and music sound like in the womb to the breakdown of the physics of sound.  I’ve never been to a museum like it!

St. Stephen’s Cathedral | One of the most well-known landmarks of Vienna, you must see the magnificence of St. Stephen’s.  Afterward we walked by Mozart’s apartment on our way back to the hotel which was also very cool!

St. Peter’s Catholic Church | We were passing by this church on our way back to our hotel so we decided to stop in.  It was stunning and Christian thought it was even more beautiful than St. Peter’s.

If you follow me on Instagram, you can also find video captures of this trip saved in the “Vienna” saved stories which will give you more of an idea of each place!

Thanks so much for reading, and stay tuned for Geneva and Paris recaps!  XO –

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We spent a little less than three days in Budapest, but the feedback I got from you guys is that it would be helpful to have each country broken down into individual posts.  So I’m going to aim to go with that!

The Formula One race with Ritz-Carlton is what brought Christian and me to Hungary, and it was the most unique experience!  As many of you might already know, racing in Europe is much different than the States.  It’s an elevated and elegant sport with some of the most well-known drivers in the world in some of the most luxurious cars in existence.

Ritz-Carlton and Mercedes AMG Petronas have a partnership which means that they not only partnered in Budapest but in cities all over world at different races in Germany, Singapore, Russia – you name it.

After arriving Thursday evening, I attended the practice run at the track all day Friday.  I had the privilege of seeing some of the Mercedes race cars up close and personal.  One of the most interesting elements of the entire process to me was how the engineers and mechanics behind each team are superstars too.  They work around the clock to ensure the best chances at winning for the team.  There are so many more hands in the pot than I realized!

During this experience, so many of you recommended the Netflix series about Formula One racing.  Which now I most definitely must watch!  I know this series further elaborates on the relationships and roles behind-the-scenes, which I would love to learn more about.  There is so much more that goes into it than just the stars behind the wheel.  And the Mercedes team will be participating in the second season.  I hear it should be a juicy episode so I’ll most definitely be tuning in.

We did spend most of our time with the Ritz-Carlton team, learning about Formula One and the stars behind the Mercedes-AMG Petronas racing team, but did squeeze in some sights during our stay.

WHERE WE STAYED

Ritz-Carlton Budapest | The location of this hotel is prime.  A short walk to tons of restaurants and a beautiful, intimate hotel – it offers all the European charm that you look for when finding a hotel for your vacation.  We chose to take advantage of the incredibly quick laundering services at the hotel several times, which was amazing.  This hotel had quite a bit of luxury toiletries in the bathrooms which I found so nice after such a long travel journey.  I’m a sucker for fab toiletries!

One of the most unique parts of this hotel to me was the amazing spa pool (pictured below).  It had sky lights with sun pouring in and looked like the dreamiest place to take an afternoon off.  I also loved the Kupola Lounge where breakfast was held each morning.  It was the most beautiful room with art all over the walls and a stained glass cupola ceiling – really something to see.  We always went there for breakfast but they have an afternoon tea that looks like so much fun!

DINING

Zeya Restaurant | This was our first meal upon arrival with the Mercedes AMG engineers, and it was wonderful! A great dinner spot and where I first realized that racing was seriously more complex than I ever could have imagined.

Deak St. KitchenThis was our last dinner of the trip, and it was so special!  Christian enjoyed an incredible wine pairing with his meal (hello, #jealous – but I had a delicious mint mocktail!) and my favorite part was the dessert, a DIY snickers.  So fun!  The dining room at Deak is so beautiful, it really was such a special ambiance to wrap up Budapest with.

Other Recommendations:  Mazel Tov and New York Café were both heavily recommended to us, but we weren’t able to swing by on this visit.  However, if you can swing it, I’ve heard both are exceptional!  I was told to ask for the main dining room at Mazel Tov and that New York Café isn’t the best foodie spot but is fabulous for a glass of champagne, afternoon tea or coffee.

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ACTIVITIES

Buda Castle | The massive Buda Castle is home to the National Gallery and Budapest History Museum. The courtyards and the grounds are free to roam around anytime, but you enter you’ll need to purchase a ticket.

Fisherman’s Bastion | Christian saw this on the day I was at the race track.  From this vantage point, you’ll get a great view of the Danube River and the Hungarian Parliament building.  Fisherman’s Bastions is one of the most visited spots in Budapest, so know that you won’t be alone!  The streets nearby have plenty of cute café’s for breakfast, lunch or an afternoon stop.

Matthias Church | This beautiful church is right next to Fisherman’s Bastion.

Chain Bridge |  You can’t miss this huge bridge and Budapest landmark.  Be sure to also stop by the Shoes on the Danube memorial.

Hungarian Parliament Building + St. Stephen’s Basilica |  We walked by both of these but didn’t go in.  I don’t believe you can go into the Parliament Building, but for a small donation you can enter the church/bell tower.

Ruin Bars & Thermal Baths | We walked through some ruin bars, but the smell reminded me of daytime on Bourbon Street… so we didn’t stay long.  But still very cool to see!  Visiting the thermal baths is a very popular tourist spot, but we were still without our luggage which meant we had no swimsuits.  My personal doctor on this trip, Dr. Barnes, also didn’t think a pregnant lady should be in the baths.  I don’t think my actual OB would have approved it either so we opted to skip.  But, I know people really love them!

If you follow CBL on Instagram, you’ll see videos of these experiences saved in the “Budapest” saved stories.  Stay tuned for a Vienna, Austria recap coming next… some of our favorite parts of the whole trip!

Thanks so much for reading and for all of your advice and recommendations along the way.  You guys are the best.  XO –

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Christian and I found out the gender of this little baby, and we were holding onto the information until we could tell our family and close friends.  SO, I’ve just been waiting to take some photos to share with you guys, and we just snapped these the other day so I could finally spill the beans!

I had a hunch around 11 weeks what the gender might be from an ultrasound in San Francisco… and I’m certainly not a sonogram expert but I actually turned out to be right!

Without further chatter, baby Barnes is a…

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We are having a precious little boy!  I have some videos I’ve taken and saved along the way talking about our little fellow that I’ll be sharing today on Instagram.  I think it will be really special for our oldest to be our son, hopefully being a protective big brother of his future sibling(s).

We have narrowed it down to two names and still can’t commit to one, but I’m hoping we will soon!  I have big plans for his nursery and bought him his first few pieces of clothing (other than all the hand-me-downs from his many cousins) in Paris.  Something about actually choosing and purchasing knit cardigans and pants for this little boy made it just feel all the more real.

He’s moving around every day and thankfully I’m still feeling great around the corner from the third trimester.  Most days I forget I’m even pregnant which is kind of a problem because I need to kick it into gear to prepare for his November arrival!

Thank you so much for sharing in this joy with us.  You can check out our first baby announcement here and my results to old wives tales relating to gender here.  Thank you for reading and for being a part of this incredibly special journey.  I always learn so much from you guys and am so appreciative that you choose to connect with me here on this site!  Big hugs and lots of love – XO –

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I’ll be honest, it wasn’t until I became pregnant that I really paid attention to the ingredients in skincare. I put a lot of thought and intention behind the produce and groceries I purchase.  However when it comes to beauty and skincare products, it’s not always top of mind.

Once I discovered I was pregnant, I began reading the ingredients of every single product in my medicine cabinet. The process was really interesting and educated me in a way I wasn’t expecting.

Because of this, I was extra excited that Mary Kay revealed its first-ever natural certified skincare line today, I love Mary Kay’s TimeWise products, but I couldn’t wait to see what this new collection was all about.

There are four products included in the Mary Kay Naturally collection, and each one is free of parabens, phthalates, SLS/SLES and synthetic fragrance. There’s a Purifying Cleanser, Moisturizing Stick, Exfoliating Powder and Nourishing Oil. Christian is really sensitive to fragrant in products.  Therefore I know finding great skincare without synthetic fragrance is a major win for so many people!

I was able to try each product a little early, so I took the Moisturizing Stick and Nourishing Oil to the beach with me last month. The Moisturizing Stick also came to Europe with us! After spending so much time in the sun, I’ve definitely experienced some peeling.  For that I’ve found the Moisturizing Stick and Nourishing Oil to be so helpful!  Just apply on the go on the spots that need a little something extra.  The Exfoliating Powder stays in my shower so I can mix it in with the Purifying Cleanser to freshen up my face and neck.

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Would love to hear what you look for in skincare and if ingredients are important to you!  Let me know in the comments and thanks so much for reading – XO –

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I thought it would be fun to share my results of some of these gender predictions!  These things can be so fun when you’re waiting to find out… although I had a feeling what I was having pretty early on and it turned out to be correct.

Dry or Soft Hands?

Dry (boy).

Breakouts?

Yes – it’s awful (girl).

Carrying high or low?

Low (boy).

Major nausea?

Nope – feel lucky there (boy)!

Ring test over stomach?

Circles (girl).

Chinese calendar?

Boy.

Y or U shaped vein in one of your eyes?

Left eye (girl).

Heartbeat rate?

Always fast (girl).

Mood changes?

Thankfully not so much (boy).

Mixing baking soda with urine (I know… so gross)?

No bubbles (girl).

I also did this inexpensive guesstimate Amazon test and it said girl.

SO… that leaves us at 6 to 5 girl to boy.  But none of these are 100% accurate so… what’s your guess?  I shared in last week’s Q&A that we already know and will be revealing soon!  We just told our families in July and have some friends to fill in first.

Thanks so much for reading and tell me if you did any of these tests with your pregnancy and if it was accurate for you! XO –

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What are you most excited about for baby?

Seeing Christian in this person.  I think to see the love of your life in a tiny person your body created… it’s just indescribable I’m sure.

Favorite part of pregnancy?

Feeling the baby move every night – it reminds me that there really is a little person growing every day in there.  It’s crazy.

Are you finding out gender?

Yes we found out!  We recently told our families and have some close friends to tell before announcing it to the world… and I have to think of how to do it!

Do you have names picked out?

Almost! We are between two names for the first name but haven’t settled on a middle name.

Will you be rounding up your best pregnancy-safe products?

Not exactly.  And here’s why – everything is relative.  When I found out I was pregnant, I went through my entire medicine cabinet and read the ingredients on every single skincare product I was using.  Almost half I couldn’t use anymore based on the google research I did.

I am nervous to share what I am or am not using because pregnancy can be such a delicate/opinionated topic and even my SF and GA OBGYN’s have felt differently about some ingredients.  Therefore I really recommend you read on what you’re comfortable with and consult your doctor to find what’s right for you.

What are you most excited about and most nervous about becoming a mom?

Excited:  I am deeply invested in the happiness and comfort of our 12+ yr old pets.  I think about them all the time, helicopter any sitters we have for them and ask the vet more questions than I ever ask my own doctor.  I am genuinely concerned I might love our baby too much.  Is that normal?  Probably not.

Nervous: That my interests or hobbies will change.  We want to have children to add richness to our life but not completely change our life… you know?  It’s important to me we have other joys and things to talk about other than our kid(s).

Biggest cravings/food aversions?

Honestly, none.  There was one Peruvian restaurant in SF that I swore smelled like a dirty dishwasher and I nearly had to leave… but other than that the only time I’ve been nauseas is in Prius Ubers.  Thankfully I haven’t had to take any lately!  This pregnancy has been pretty breezy… that or I’ve been too busy to notice that many changes.  Who knows!

TTC (trying to conceive) journey?

I mentioned in our announcement post that this baby was not a surprise and was something we wanted in 2019.  I had no idea if it would take one month or a year, and we were surprised that it didn’t take very long.  Therefore I didn’t get too deep into apps or products as I was going to give myself a six month grace period before getting too technical… but who knows what the next time will be like.

How many kids do you want?

We both came from families of 5 and joke that we are going to see how much we like the first two before deciding if we want a bigger family. Ha!  We both love working, so having three kids along with careers we are deeply invested in feels like a lot.  However, people do it all the time, so it really just comes down to what we personally think we can handle while still feeling fulfilled professionally.

Are you going to transition your blog to mommy things?

I hope not… and I hope that doesn’t sound bad!  I share my life – fashion, travel, home, food, marriage, all of it.  Motherhood moments of course will be shared but fashion, home and travel will always the main focus of this blog.

What are you renovating in your new home?

Besides painting and doing some exterior work, we only want to revamp the bathrooms and then we we will be done!  The previous owners thankfully had fantastic taste and we love all the updates they made.

I want to purchase my first luxury handbag.  Tips in what brand is worth investing in?

Absolutely!  The below blog posts are a great starting point –

Most & Least Worn Luxury Accessories (& Why!)

5 Designer Pieces Worth the Splurge

Favorite Sites for Gently Used Designer Goods

How or did you deal with feeling that you weren’t at the right point in your life as others?

LOVE this question.  I absolutely have dealt with this and addressed how I stop the comparison game in this blog post.

How come Barnez is around more lately?  He was working so much in SF!

Christian has now passed both his ENT and Facial Plastics board exams (four exams total – so proud of him) to become double board certified and is waiting to get his Georgia medical license.  We took July + August to move, get settled and travel before he starts work in September.

Did Barnez go straight from undergrad to med school or take time off/work in between?

Smarty pants Dr. Barnes was on full scholarship for both college and medical school and went straight from school to school without breaks.  He’s 32 and just now finished with school and training, getting his big boy job.  God bless.

Thoughts on when to start a family while on the medical training journey?

Many people start families while in training, and it absolutely can be done.  Personally, I feel it really depends on the speciality and where you live/how far you are from support.  My brother and brother-in-law are in radiation oncology and pediatrics.  Both have more manageable training schedules and they both had multiple kids in training and were able to make it work.

Christian was in head & neck surgery and then facial plastics.  His schedule was truly insane.  If we had chosen to start a family in training, living across the country from both of our families, it would have led to a significant increase in stress and struggle, which is why we knew we had to wait.  It’s completely personal to your life and what you think you can handle!

Will Christian’s schedule be more stable now that you are in Georgia?

YES.  Which is one of the biggest pulls that brought us to Georgia – the day-to-day quality of life.

What other cities were in the running before you moved?

It was Georgia or two different positions in Orange County.

What advice would you or your husband give for someone just starting med school?

Kat:  Buckle up.  It is a long road filled with a lot of sacrifice for not only you but also your partner.  More tips here!

Christian:  Do your best to try to enjoy each phase of it and take one year at a time because if you’re just holding your breath until you’re done… it can be overwhelming.

What is the best 5 year jewelry gift to request for an anniversary?

Diamond stud earrings (on sale here!), Cartier Love bracelet, Michele watch or anything Monica Vinader.

Where did you get your pet bowls?

Love this question. 🙂  I love our pet bowls and they’re both from MacKenzie-Childs!

How do you make friends as an adult?

I shared my tips in this blog post.

What are some of your favorite Athens discoveries so far?

I am embarrassed to say that we have been in town for about a total of three weeks, most of that time being spent working on unpacking and settling in.  So we definitely are very behind in exploring the area, but I know we have plenty of time to do that ahead of us and we are definitely excited about it.

Do you have any Georgia triggers?  You seem so happy!

Girlfriend… we are so happy.  I don’t recall having many Orange County triggers either – we were also very happy there.  If you have followed CBL here or on Instagram, I was open about our year in San Francisco and tried to share comically without being completely disrespectful to those who live there and love it.  It was a difficult year financially, emotionally, physically, mentally… BUT it did make me over-the-top grateful for every single thing once we left.

Things like easily taking out the trash, easily letting the dog out, having a guaranteed parking spot, being able to go to a restaurant without a reservation, no one breaking into my car for an iPhone charger, not hearing my neighbors stomping around above me or waking up to someone ELSE’s alarm clock, easy outdoor access, more space, having ice that isn’t in trays, having my own w/d… while paying significantly less for all of those things.

I could literally list 100 basic things that have increased our quality of life significantly.  It’s just a completely different life.  We’ve been up to our ears in settling in and investing in our new home, but it’s still easier than our life this time last year.

How do you handle criticism?  You seem to have an easy confidence about you.

Thank you so much for this!  I competed in Miss Teen USA when I was a teenager and experienced criticism, both surface-level and constructive, from an early age.  I’d try out for cheerleader and all-star cheerleader all throughout jr. high and high school, played sports as well as ran for class office every year – so I was forced to become comfortable with criticism at an early age.

My thought has always been this – consider all of the people you admire.  People you know, celebrities, entrepreneurs – there’s no way they could have gotten to where they are without criticism and “haters.”  Everyone I admire receives way more shade than I do, so if I can’t handle a little bit than I need to find a new career!

Do you have any tips for feeling close to family or friends when you live far away?

Phone and text is honestly how I’ve felt most connected throughout the past six years. My mom and brother live in Mississippi and California and they have a scheduled Sunday FaceTime. My brother is a doctor and they don’t really talk during the week between his schedule and the time difference, but they’ll save up things to share on their Sunday chats.

What’s your take on getting a yellow lab puppy and living in an apartment?

Personally – I couldn’t do it.  They are great dogs but shed like crazy and have TONS of energy… which means a backyard for an energetic puppy is crucial… or at least it was for Bailey.

Do you get lip fillers?

I have never gotten filler, only Botox (shared here), always administered by Christian.  There was a kid in my elementary school class who called me “big lips” once, and I complained to my mom.  She said, “honey, people pay a lot of money for full lips, you’ll see.”  Per usual, Karen was right.  But I have no judgement on lip filler, if I wasn’t happy with mine, I would have no problem pursuing it!

I need Lula’s story.  Is it somewhere I can read?

Love those of you who want more info on Lu!  I wrote about her story more in the beginning of CBL days, but I’d be happy to share again.

In 2011 I grabbed dinner and margaritas with my roommate.  We saw this little black cat in the parking lot on our way out and she came right up to me because she thought I might have food.  She let me pick her up, and then I didn’t feel like I could leave her.

I took her to our apartment, called the restaurant and asked if she was their restaurant cat or something.  The manager said, “no ma’am, but there’s an employee who feeds her sometimes but she doesn’t work everyday.  You’re welcome to try to come capture her.”  I said, uh… there was no capturing, she hopped in my car.

She was already fixed and just had a really bad ear infection that took two months to fix.  I told all of the local shelters I’d found this cat and if anyone called about her to call me.  No one did.  Christian wanted me to find her a home and I did… but at that point I’d fallen in love with her and couldn’t let her go!

In 2013 we felt a tumor on her leg in California.  I took her to the vet and they told me they’d have to amputate her front left leg to see if the tumor was cancerous or not.  Devastated but wanting to give this sweet cat a chance, we opted for the surgery.  The tumor was in fact cancer and they estimated she would have around six months.  Six months passed and she was doing great.  A year passed and she was great.  We have done two rounds of follow-up x-rays since 2013 and the cancer is not growing.  Lula is on her 9th life!

That’s it for this month’s Q&A!! Thank you SO much to everyone who submitted these fabulous questions.  Other Q&A’s can be found here – March, April, May.

I love hearing from you!  Have a fabulous week – XO –

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florida ocean21 week bumpmirth wrap dress

similar earrings here and here | dress (runs TTS) | bag | similar sandals (over 30% off) | lipstick in rouge muse

chainlink braceletgold chainlink braceletcolorblock midi dress

dress – also love this one and this one | similar sandals | similar sunglasses here and here | belt bag | earrings (in white), also love these

straw bucket bag

outfit  posted here

janessa leone gloria hatred cutout swimsuit

swimsuit (on sale – I sized up one size), also love this one | sarong – Agua de Coco, similar style here and here | bag | hat | sunglasses | similar earrings here and here

leopard bandeau bikinileopard two piece swim

bikini + sarong – Agua de Coco, love this one (top/bottom) and this one | hat | similar sunglasses, look for less here

topshop white dress

dress (runs big, I sized down) | sunglasses | bag | hat | sandals

white H sandals

dress (old), similar dress here and here | similar sandals | similar earrings

coral tank dressgigi new york belt bag

blog post here | earrings | belt bag

alys beach florida

earrings | dress (sold out) – similar style here and here | similar sandals | necklace 1, 2

floral coverup

coverup – Yumi Kim (old), love this one and this one | hat, also available here | sunglasses

white ribbed dressrent the runway white dress

dress | sandals, look for less here | pouch | bangles | chainlink bracelet | coin necklace | clover necklace | similar earrings here and here

striped coverup

hat | sunglasses | coverup | bag | sandals

 

I wanted to round up some of the photos snapped on our beach trip last week!  I have been in paint clothes, moving clothes, you name it for so long.  It was so much fun to spend a whole week wearing some of the pieces I’ve been looking forward to wearing this summer!

You can also find these looks linked on Instagram as well as under the “shop my Instagram” page at the top of this blog.

Many of you asked for restaurant and activity recommendations and sadly… I’m empty-handed on this one.  We had 13 people in a rental house in Alys, so we cooked at home and mostly went to the pool, rode bikes and spend our days under umbrellas at the beautiful beach.  It was bliss, in the laziest most fabulous way!  Honestly it was exactly what I think we all needed.

Thank you so much for reading – XO –

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green maxi dress

I recently used my Rent the Runway Unlimited membership to pick three dresses and one pair of earrings to take with me to Alys Beach for our family trip.  Now that I’m in my second trimester, I updated my profile sizing to pieces that would work for the bump.  I searched for casual daytime dresses that were available in my size in July and voila!  Snagged four fresh pieces.

I wanted to share my RTR Unlimited experience with you guys because depending on what kind of shopper/fashionista you are, it has serious potential to save you thousands upon thousands of dollars a year if you use the program wisely.

With the Unlimited program, you can select up to 4 pieces at a time.  When you’re over one of them, send it back for free to swap for another.  Items come in two business days and the dry cleaning and insurance is taken care of.  So select it, wear it, send it back via UPS at no cost. They also have drop-off options at different WeWork locations which is super convenient if you work at one of these office spaces.  Also, if you fall in love with an item you can hold onto it for as long as you like or you also have the option to buy it at a discount to keep!

You can browse their website for new pieces or you can shop via their app – whichever is easier for you.  If you love to try new designers and wear luxe items, this is an incredible option to keep your closet in a fresh rotation.  

I know so many women who started using RTR and now say they literally don’t shop anymore.  Seriously! I’m trying to see if I can become one of those people… you might have seen this dress on Instagram which was also a rental.

flamingo earringspolene bucket bagstraw bucket bagwoven sandalsgold chainlink braceletalys beach floridagreen maxi dressandre assous sandalselizabeth cole earringsstraw bucket bagalys beach floridarent the runway unlimited

photos by Christian Barnes

dress, also love this one and this one | love these earrings and these earrings

When I shared that I was using RTR Unlimited a while back on my Instagram Stories, I loved hearing how many of you also utilize the program!  I’d love to hear your thoughts and if it’s been a fit for you.

You can get $100 off your first two month membership of RTR Unlimited with the code RTRKATHLEEN – that’s $50 off each month!

If you haven’t tried renting pieces before, is it something you could see yourself using?

Thanks so much for reading and sharing – XO –

brought to you by Rent the Runway

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coral dress

I bought this dress in two colors from Nordstrom and now I realize I need all three solid colors.  It is so incredibly comfortable, so flattering, under $100 and perfect for summer!

I dressed up this midi dress with heels which would absolutely work for a date night or summer wedding, but it also looks great with flats after a day at the pool or beach.  It’s so versatile, which is why I knew I had to have it in more than one color.

The plan is to live in comfortable dresses like this and this for the rest of my second trimester (crossing my fingers it might still fit in the third), and now that we are living in warmer weather, it’s all dresses all the time.  THE BEST.

white belt bagjulie vos necklaceribbed tank dresscoral tank dressgigi new york belt bagwhite cateye sunglassesalys beach floridasecond trimester dressnude ankle strap heelhalogen slip dresscoral slip dress

photos by Christian Barnes

dress (runs big, I ordered my usual size at 21 weeks), also love this one and this one | similar belt bag here and here | similar sunglasses | heels, also love these and these for less | love these earrings | similar bangles under $25 | similar necklace set, really want this one | lipstick in Liar

While this dress isn’t included in the Anniversary Sale, it’s still under $100 and one of my favorite things I’ve bought from Nordstrom this year (in addition to these marked down pajamas because I am so obsessed with this pair from last year).  You can see all of my Nordstrom Sale picks under the #NSale link at the top of this page!

Thanks so much for reading, and my Alys Beach roundup post is coming this week! XO –

sponsored by Nordstrom

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black and white modern art

So when we shared our big moving announcement a few weeks ago, there may have been one more little secret we’ve been keeping…

We’re expecting our first baby in November!  I’m 20 weeks along with this little one, and it’s the best San Francisco souvenir we could have been blessed with.

Because I’ve been keeping this secret from you guys since March (!!), I wanted to share a little video recapping the first trimester.  From finding out we were expecting to our first ultrasound, how we told our families over Mother’s Day weekend, the first item we bought for baby and how I’ve been feeling along the way – everything is covered in a quick 5.5 minute recap below!

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dress (old), similar style here and here | earrings (old) – similar here and here | abstract art | golden gate print | silhouette print | black planter, out of stock, also love this one and this one | bust | ottoman

So all of this to say, moving across the country, starting over in a new city, Christian starting a new job, buying our first home, and having our first baby… we are clearly just taking it all on at the same time.  Just trying to see what else we can tack on while we’re at it!  But they are all such exciting and happy moments that I feel really lucky to be experiencing so many of them at once.

And of course, I am so excited to finally share this news with all of my CBL girls!  In the first few months I was trying to think of creative ways to share the news and so I thought the video would be a great way to catch you up to speed.  Christian and I figured we would keep it a little inside secret until I was showing, and around 18 weeks there was no more hiding this bump.  I’m still wearing most of the same clothes (the forgiving ones, at least),  but I can tell that once we hit the third trimester I’ll be needing to dip into maternity.  With so many things on our plate right now, “we’ll get there when we get there” has been my mantra.  One day at a time!

I would love to hear if you guys have any more questions or if there is anything else you’d want me to fill you in on.  We can do a baby version of the monthly blog FAQ if you prefer?  Please leave any questions below in the comments!

As for how baby will affect CBL… I don’t really know just yet.  Probably as frequently as Christian pops in or out, but I think it will depend on how much you guys want to know, what is relevant/helpful to those of you who take the time to read this blog, etc.  I know there are so many amazing motherhood blogs out there and CBL will always remain focused on fashion, with emphasis on other lifestyle categories including marriage and now family.  I would love to hear if pregnancy/postpartum/baby content is helpful to you or if you prefer the existing lifestyle categories as is.

Thank you so much for being a part of this joyous time with us.  This baby was not a surprise, it was what we had been hoping for this year and we feel so overwhelmed with gratitude that we have been chosen to take care of and raise this little boy or girl.  Christian keeps saying how excited he is to meet this baby!  He’s been so protective and wonderful, making sure I don’t lift heavy boxes and that I’m eating healthy and drinking enough water.  I think he called me every hour on the hour when I drove across the country with Lula.  It’s been really sweet.

You can check out more video content by subscribing to my YouTube channel here or checking out the “video” category of this site!  Thank you so much for being a part of our journey.  Your support and encouragement always means so so so much to us.  Love y’all! XO –

Pregnancy recaps

Second Trimester

Third Trimester

Third Trimester Wardrobe Tips

Pregnancy Essentials

Hospital Packing List

Birth Story

Newborn Essentials

Breastfeeding Update

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